Keeping Fit

Fitness beyond age 55.

posted on August 30, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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“You’ve got to be kidding. I’m too old for that kind of stuff,” my friend said in response to my suggestion that a fitness class might help us both with a weight problem.

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Not a Fairy Godmother

Why aren't the real ones like the storybooks?

posted on August 23, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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“She has a rather long nose.” Thus was my first impression of the tiny, white-haired, 70-year-old lady that was to occupy the front bedroom for the following winter months.

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Emotional Osteoporosis

Sometimes heavenly angels hold you. And sometimes earthly ones do.

posted on August 16, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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I stood precariously balanced on the kitchen counter, trying to put the summer screen into the kitchen window. It has a mind of its own and tries my patience every spring. At last it fits. Carefully I step back onto the chair I have placed beside the counter. I miss it and start to fall.

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To Have Loved and Lost

It may be harder, but it is better by far.

posted on August 9, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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“Pat, Elaine, Fernne.” So often I heard my mother call those names. She probably only wanted one of us but she automatically called all three.

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Lilliputian Lake

A place briefly shared.

posted on August 2, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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When asked where the prettiest spot we ever camped was, I have to confess (as a Presbyterian elder) it was in a place where there was a “no camping” sign.

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Quantity, Not Quality

Just be there.

posted on July 26, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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There is a good deal of talk nowadays about the “quality” of time spent with children. That word would have confused my mother.

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Endings and Beginnings

Sometimes it just takes a word.

posted on July 19, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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The funeral was over. The relatives had gone and the freezer was stuffed with more food than I could ever eat. But mostly, it was time I had too much of … minutes, days, weeks, months of time.

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A Kitten to Share

Red and yellow, black and white.

posted on July 12, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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I set the small grey kitten on the white hospital blanket and waited—waited for the magic to start.

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Grandparents

You know them when you see them.

posted on July 5, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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“How old is the baby?” I smile at the new mother. I guess my grey hair is not intimidating; she replies with a smile, “Three days old!”

Wow! This is a different world.

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Old Friends and Fellowships

In strange yet familiar churches.

posted on June 28, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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“Well this is different,” I said to myself as with widened eyes I took in the large sanctuary. (My own church contains nine pews on each side.) I wondered if I should reconsider this adventure; then I found the rest of the congregation fast on my heels and I was propelled inside.

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Of Farewells and Future Plans

Having lost someone, I thought I could help others plan to die.

posted on June 21, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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For six months after my husband died, I did not see the top of my dining room table. Funeral papers and federal, provincial and local government documents were stacked there along with all the sympathy cards … Much later I said to a friend, “If I’d known there was going to be so much paperwork, I wouldn’t have let him go.”

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The Magical Suitcase

Adventures in travelling with children.

posted on June 14, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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The years had dimmed our memories of travelling with our children. (We’d forgotten all the potty stops and car-sick kids.)

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Shoemakers and Shoes

And rainy days.

posted on June 7, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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I pushed hard against the peeling, painted door. As it opened, my senses were filled with wonderful odours … leather, shoe polish, oiled wood floors. Such a heady perfume could take my breath away.

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Understanding the Trinity

A spotlight grants a little insight.

posted on May 31, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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Like many Christians, I’v had difficulty trying to comprehend the Trinity. The enormity of God fills me with awe.

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Faith in Action

A spider story.

posted on May 24, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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I watched as the tiny spider at its end, without fear, spun itself down until it rested on a nearby chair. It was really faith in action.

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Mental Health Nursing

The mind is a beautiful thing.

posted on May 17, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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The mind is a curious thing and I was learning fascinating things about it. But the practical aspects of the job were a far greater learning experience.

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A Volunteer’s Vigil

A poem of waiting.

posted on May 10, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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We waited together…
Waiting for time to stop.

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Second Wind

Sometimes you just wanna quit.

posted on May 3, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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I grinned as my eyes slid over the old photo of us, grubby but smiling, sitting around the campfire at the end of the climb. We’d been so young and full of enthusiasm. I’d learned something special that day; something that has stood by me through the years.

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Double Wedding

Mirrors of memory beneath gothic arches.

posted on April 26, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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The dark-haired young man with his grandpa’s blue eyes turned and kissed his lovely bride.

My heart stopped. This was a reenactment of a wedding 25 years earlier.

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Faith Farming

Plant faith, water with prayers, and wait to see what God makes grow.

posted on April 19, 2010 in Columns, Patricia Schneider

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One of my earliest memories is of arguing with some girlfriends during the war years. They insisted that God didn’t like the Germans.

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